Premium dating site: how to recognise one
A premium dating site is judged neither by its price nor by its photos. You recognise it by its members, its profile checks, its discretion and the way contact is made. Here are our criteria, and what you will find in French-speaking Switzerland today.
Velvet is our own site. We say so openly. The other platforms are described against the same criteria, based on their official sites, consulted on 12 November 2026.
Six criteria for recognising a premium dating site
Members looking for a relationship
Members come for something serious and say so. The site makes this clear from sign-up and lets you state your goal, so you only come across people who want the same thing as you.
Checked profiles
Profile and photo moderation, a real person who handles every report, and ideally an identity check shown on the profile, so you know who you are talking to.
Discretion
Your profile should not appear on Google or be visible to just anyone. You should be able to hide it at any time and decide what you show.
Contact by choice
Receiving dozens of unsolicited messages is anything but premium. On a premium site, you choose who can message you, or a conversation only opens when the interest is mutual.
Clear prices
Prices are shown before you sign up, with the duration and the renewal terms. A plan that changes from person to person or is only revealed at the moment of payment is a bad sign.
Local roots
A site designed for your region, in your language, introduces you to people you can actually meet. In French-speaking Switzerland, that means a site in French, focused on Romandy.
What the platforms available today offer
Parship
Swiss site in French and German, for a lasting relationship. Questionnaire of around 80 questions, profiles checked manually, optional ID-Check. Subscriptions of 6 to 24 months, from CHF 44.90 a month paid in one go.
Celibataire.ch
Specialising in French-speaking Switzerland, for love or friendship. Profiles, ads and photos checked by hand, data stored in French-speaking Switzerland, outings organised every month. Published prices, from CHF 44.99 for one month to CHF 164.99 for a year.
ElitePartner
For cultured singles, without requiring a degree. Every sign-up is checked. The Swiss site exists only in German and does not publish its prices; writing to a member requires a Premium subscription.
Meetic
A large mainstream site with a Swiss version in French. Moderated descriptions and photos, search by criteria, Incognito mode for viewing profiles discreetly. Published prices, from CHF 23.99 to CHF 59.99 a month depending on the duration.
Matchmaking agencies
Another route: a matchmaker guides you and introduces you to potential partners. The service is personal, but the choice depends on the agency's client base.
Where Velvet fits in
A selection every day
Every day, a few profiles chosen to match your criteria: what you are looking for, age, distance, lifestyle, interests. Affinity is shown as a percentage, so you can see straight away what you have in common.
Nobody messages you without your consent
A conversation only opens when the interest is mutual. No unsolicited messages, no inbox to sort through.
Discretion and identity
Your profile is visible only to logged-in members, never to search engines, and you can hide it at any time. A badge shows which members have had their identity checked, which is optional.
French-speaking Switzerland, in French
Velvet is a Valais business, designed for Romandy. Three plans with the same full access; only the duration changes: 89 CHF a month, 239 CHF for 3 months or 889 CHF a year, charged in euros by CCBill.
Premium does not mean risk-free
Never send money
Swiss Crime Prevention advises cutting off all contact as soon as you are asked for money or goods, and never lending your bank account to anyone else.
Anything can be faked
Photos, profession, life story: online, anything can be made up. An identity badge helps, but nothing replaces a date in a public place.
No compromising photos
Never send an intimate or compromising photo that you would not publish yourself.
Frequently asked questions
What is a premium dating site?
It is a site that puts quality before quantity. Its members are looking for a serious relationship, profiles are checked, discretion is protected, contact happens with your consent and prices are stated clearly. Price alone is not enough: an expensive subscription with no profile checks and no discretion is anything but premium.
Is there a premium dating site in French-speaking Switzerland?
Several platforms available in French-speaking Switzerland meet some of these criteria. Parship and Meetic have a Swiss version in French, Celibataire.ch is focused on Romandy, and ElitePartner targets cultured singles but exists only in German. Velvet, our own site, was designed for French-speaking Switzerland around these criteria: a daily selection, mutual contact, a profile invisible to search engines and an optional identity badge. It opens soon and pre-registration is open.
Does a premium site verify every profile?
Not necessarily in the same way. Some check every sign-up by hand, others offer optional identity verification shown by a badge. Look at exactly what the site does, in its help pages or its terms. On Velvet, identity verification is optional and a badge shows which members have done it.
How much does a premium dating site cost?
Prices vary with the length of the subscription. Taken from the official sites on 12 November 2026: Parship from CHF 44.90 a month over 6 to 24 months, Meetic from CHF 23.99 to CHF 59.99 a month with options extra, Celibataire.ch from CHF 44.99 for one month to CHF 164.99 for a year; ElitePartner does not display its prices. At Velvet: 89 CHF a month, 239 CHF for 3 months or 889 CHF a year, charged in euros by CCBill, with the same full access.
Premium site or matchmaking agency?
An agency supports you personally and introduces you to people from its client base. A premium site lets you choose for yourself, at your own pace, from profiles selected to match your criteria. The two can complement each other; it all depends on how much time you want to give it and how much support you would like.
Find out more
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